Tarot readings that focus on love and relationships are very popular. You are the reason that the world is round. Tarot can be a useful tool to help you find clarity and insight on this topic.

It can sometimes be very difficult to find the right questions for your readings. When I just started out doing tarot myself, I often became quite frustrated when I couldn’t come up with good questions on the spot, which would most of the time result in a low energy reading.

That’s why I decided to put together a list of specific questions for love and relationship themed readings to hopefully help you dive in to your reading with great confidence and high energy as well!

I’ve created a helpful list of 61 questions for you to help you get the most value out of your reading in a constructive manner.

I hope you find my questions inspiring to grab your favorite tarot card for a lovey-dovey reading right away!

Further down this article I’ll also provide you with some useful information on how to come up with good love and relationship questions yourself.

You will also find some recommendations for decks that I like to use when reading about love.

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The 61 Best Love and Relationship Strategies
Tarot Cards Have Relationship Questions You Can Ask

  1. What can I do for my perfect life partner?
  2. Which are the most important characteristics to look for when looking for a partner?
  3. How can I improve my relationship with others?
  4. Where is the best place to meet my soulmate
  5. What is the most important lesson that I can learn from my recent breakup?
  6. What is a great way to strengthen my relationship with my partner?
  7. How do I find out if my crush is also attracted?
  8. Is it possible to be happy with my feelings for my crush (or partner)?
  9. What is the greatest thing in my current relationship that is holding me back?
  10. What can you do to ensure that my crush notices you in a positive manner?
  11. What is the most important thing I am overlooking in my relationship?
  12. Which part of me should I be paying more attention now that I’m in a relationship with someone?
  13. What is causing this emotional blockage in our relationship?
  14. Which past issues should I be aware about in my current relationship with my partner?
  15. When it comes to certain suspicions I have in my relationship, can I trust my intuition?
  16.  Which personality type should I avoid when it comes to relationships and love?
  17. How can I bring back the excitement in my relationship?
  18. Is there a reason why I am preventing new love from entering into my life?
  19. What can I do?
  20. What areas of me do I need to improve in order to make my next relationship work for me?
  21. Why am I still holding on to this relationship?
  22. How can I stop getting upset about the little things that my partner does?
  23. How do I determine if my partner is the right one for me?
  24. Is my crush compatible with my personality and traits?
  25. How do I find a partner with the same interests and goals as me?
  26. What is the under-underlying issue that I would like my partner to be more supportive of?
  27. What are my sexual compatibilities with my boyfriend (or crush) and me?
  28. What should my focus be in the coming month when it comes to my relationship?
  29. How can I be more truthful in my relationship with others?
  30. What are some ways I can connect spiritually with my partner
  31. What are the habits I need to break in my relationship?
  32. How do I let go of my ex-partner?
  33. Why is it that I think about my ex-love (or crush) all the time?
  34. What false assumptions can I make about my partner
  35. How have my relationships helped me to be stronger?
  36. How can I communicate with my partner about a particular issue in the most effective way possible?
  37. How do I let my crush know my feelings?
  38. What should I do when my crush doesn’t return my feelings?
  39. How can I gain clarity in my relationship?
  40. How can I tell if my partner is my true twin?
  41. What will my future (future?) life partner do to influence me in a positive manner?
  42. How can I tell if I’m ready to start a new relationship with someone?
  43. What type of first date would you recommend for me and my crush?
  44. How can I stop myself from sabotaging my relationships?
  45. What is the most important trait I have in common (or love interest/ crush) with my partner?
  46. What should I pay more attention when it comes my partner to be more supportive?
  47. What are possible threats in my relationship I need to be aware of?
  48. What are my strengths and weaknesses when it comes to relationships?
  49. What are my strengths in my relationship?
  50. What can I do for my relationship to bring back the joy?
  51. How can I feel more confident in finding new love?
  52. What kind of people are most influential on you?
  53. How can I tell if I can be friends with my ex on the long-term?
  54. Which hobbies or activities are most likely that I will find a new partner?
  55. What holiday should I choose next with my partner or significant other?
  56. What is something that my partner would love if I integrated it into our relationship?
  57. What are some qualities in my partner that I assume are normal, but which are rare?
  58. What do you want me to know about my love life?
  59. What can I do for my partner to help him with a particular problem?
  60. What are the next steps to attract true love over time?
  61. What’s next in my love life?

What is the best way to ask a Tarot?
Question about Relationships

When you’re looking to come up with great questions for your love and relationship themed reading, it is important to always remember to formulate questions in an open ended way.

A great way to do this is by starting off your question with a ‘Why, Where, Which, What or How’.

This will allow you to find that you are more likely to come up with an open-ended question. The tarot card decks will then be able give you much deeper and more meaningful insights.

When you ask a ‘closed’ type of question, you’ll often find you’ll get a one-way or insufficient answer.

Asking open-ended questions will help you understand the meaning of the cards and make it easier for you to complete any quests you may have.

You can find more great questions and useful suggestions in my article on tarot card readings. 101 questions For more inspiration, click here

You can use the questions to get great insights for any type of tarot card reading.

What is the Best Tarot Card?
Love?

The best card to pull during a love themed reading is obviously ‘the Lovers’ tarot card. You can be certain that the person you are interested in is of great positive impact on your life, both now and into the future, if you draw this card.

The Lovers Card is for true love, deep connections, and companionship between two people. This makes it a wonderful foundation for the ultimate romantic relationship.

If you’re single, the Lovers Card can be used to indicate that true love is just around the corner.

You will find your life partner by following your intuition and heart.

Are you allowed to ask Yes or No questions
Are You a Tarot Love Reader?

As with all type of tarot questions, whether it is a love reading or a ‘general’ reading, it is best advised to avoid asking ‘Yes or No’ kind of questions as much as possible.

As much as I can understand how tempting it can be to ask the cards whether X or Y will become your future partner (trust me, I’ve been there), you must understand this is not the goal of tarot.

Tarot provides you with valuable insights and information that can help you move forward on your spiritual journey.

It doesn’t want you dwelling and waiting for the perfect partner to eventually come along, it wants to function as a useful tool for you to take action and be in charge of your own life.

By asking open ended questions instead of ‘Yes or No’ type of questions, you are in charge and you will be much more likely to get a constructive answer that you can actually work with and get you closed to your true life purpose.

Tarot Decks Recommended for Love
Relationship readings

Any type of tarot card deck can be used to read about love and relationships, as long as it is truly yours.

Personallly, however, I have a few tarot deckS When it comes to love-themed readings, I prefer to use most because they provide me with just the right amount of detail.

You can also find my other articles here. I will be discussing my favorite tarot decks to help you love and understand your relationship.

Maybe you’ll find some inspiration and ideas for your own readings.

Enjoy reading!